AI and Your Natural Talents: Part 2 - Using AI to Compensate Where You Need Support

  • December 22, 2025

Quick note: When I refer to AI in this post, I’m talking about AI tools powered by large language models like ChatGPT, Copilot, and Gemini. I use AI as a support tool - not a decision-maker -  and always apply human judgment and discernment. If you’re using AI in a professional setting, the paid versions are worth considering for added security and privacy protections. Even still, it’s important to be thoughtful about the information you share with these tools.

 

In Part 1 of this series, I focused on how AI can be used to strengthen what already comes naturally - how it can amplify the way we think and work when we’re operating from our strengths. In this second part, I want to explore the other side of that equation: how AI can be used to compensate in the areas that don’t come as easily, so they don’t slow us down or pull energy away from what we do best.

There’s a long list of things I know I’m not great at. A few examples: I take forever to proofread because I tend to overthink the tone, context, spelling and grammatical errors. I’m not great at creative work like design, so creating eye-catching social media posts sometimes leaves me scratching my head. And I’m also not great at promoting myself or my work, causing me to keep things in that others might shout from the rooftops.

Part of my journey as a strengths coach - and as someone who has been coached - I accepted these areas of lesser talent, and gave me freedom from trying to be great in everything. AI has been a Godsend in supporting these areas that otherwise would've consumed my energy, working hours, and confidence to get to where I am in building this business, quite honestly.

So, if you know what doesn't come naturally to you and you want to get a little (or a lot of) AI assistance to manage it, read on...

When Execution and Follow-Through Don’t Come Naturally

If details, structure, or consistent follow-through aren’t your strengths, the mechanics of work can feel heavier than they need to be.

AI can help compensate by:

  • Catching spelling, grammar, and consistency issues without multiple rereads
  • Creating step-by-step workflows so you don’t have to design systems from scratch
  • Breaking large projects into manageable tasks with clear checkpoints
  • Tracking deadlines, commitments, and details that are easy to miss
  • Handling repetitive tasks that tend to get avoided

Instead of burning energy on things that drain you, AI provides quiet, reliable support in the background.


When Influence and Self-Promotion Feel Uncomfortable

If promoting yourself, advocating for your work, or speaking up doesn’t come naturally, those moments can create hesitation or stress.

AI can help by:

  • Refining language so your work is clearly and confidently described
  • Drafting posts, emails, or talking points so you’re not starting from scratch
  • Helping you frame your ideas in a way that feels authentic—not salesy
  • Preparing you for conversations where you need to articulate value
  • Structuring presentations or proposals so the focus stays on the message

AI doesn’t change who you are. It just helps you show your work without the friction.


When Relationship-Building Takes Extra Energy

Even people who care deeply about others can find relationship maintenance challenging, especially when workloads are full.

AI can help compensate by:

  • Suggesting timely follow-ups and check-ins
  • Keeping track of personal details from past interactions
  • Reviewing tone to reduce the risk of miscommunication
  • Helping plan meetings that encourage participation
  • Spotting patterns that may indicate tension or disengagement

This kind of support helps ensure that good intentions translate into consistent action.


When Strategic or Analytical Thinking Feels Heavy

If research, planning, or big-picture thinking doesn’t come easily, those expectations can slow decision-making.

AI can help by:

  • Summarizing information into clear, usable insights
  • Identifying patterns or trends you might miss
  • Generating questions to consider before making decisions
  • Exploring “what if” scenarios to widen perspective
  • Reducing overwhelm by narrowing focus to what matters most

AI provides clarity and structure so you can move forward with confidence.


Support, Not Self-Criticism

Using AI to compensate isn’t about fixing flaws or becoming someone you’re not. It’s about working honestly with who you are and choosing support instead of frustration.

When those draining areas are supported, you get to:

  • Spend more time in your strengths
  • Protect your energy
  • Reduce unnecessary stress
  • Stay focused on the work that matters most

That’s the real value of AI - not that it makes us all better at everything, but that it helps us work more effectively as best ourselves.

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